DonnaSue,
Don't ever give up hope. I can remember saying the same thing as you have. "I've tried everything and I can't make it go away." Mine went away when I was the most hopeless and helpless.
Mine was emotional pain. Severe emotional pain that I had carried with me my entire life. It's gone now. I found the answer after I tried every kind of therapy and self help that exsisted.
I don't know if you believe in a Higher Power, but mine saved me. I finally had to surrender and let Him take over. We are not finished yet, but the difference is huge for me. It's never too late and you're never too old. I was close to 40 when all the changes started taking place in my life. It took about 5 years for God to show me all the garbage I had hidden inside. There is a reason for everything and an answer to everything. We just have to find it.
Hugs,
MG