Originally Posted by
Frankenskank1 
I would advise my friend to sit him down and explain things from their point of view... or just tell them to punch him in the head. I do love him so much and its good when its good I've sat him down numerous times and sometimes there a change. He just came into my work in front of all the people I work with hyped-up. I'm at a loss too because we go on an overseas holiday next week and we've both waited so so long for it. When I try to leave him he tells me that I am just over stressed for this holiday but he just wont see my bigger picture. He had such a future :/
In the end it's your choice.
I'm not that old I don't remember how it is to be young and in love.
I am old enough tho to know it needs give and take from both parties to make a relationship last.
If you're the one making all the concessions, you really need to think about that.
What if this guys behaviour doesn't change?
What if it's not the drug/s?
You're very young to making a lifetime commitment to someone who, from what you've written, doesn't seem to be doing you any favours.
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