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Old 03-01-2017, 09:41 AM
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MicroMacro
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Originally Posted by RoyGBiv View Post
Anyone have any tips, suggestions, experiences, that may help me stay grounded and deal lacking patience and wanting to control things I cannot?
Have you decided if you're only going to date someone in recovery? Because that will affect your communication. You two will either be able to relate to one another on that level - or not. Seems like an important level - but that's me.

Have you asked yourself what the rush is about? You said you're feeling impatient- what's causing it? Do you want to start a family or ...

I wonder if getting to the bottom of your impatience will help you feel less pressed about the whole thing.

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