I guess the way I look at it....my whole life ..it was like I got on the wrong bus! Ended up ok. I keep saying...very grateful for a damn good job. Landed that at a young age. 2 thriving kids that are now adults and seven grandkids out of that. I really didn't marry very well ...BUT I played a part in that. Choices are not always on point. I did well. Not depending on others. If I meet someone fine. But that makes me laugh because it isn't like they just show up after lining up on your sidewalk. I don't go anywhere. BUT it is winter. Once spring hits it is a whole nother game! My last husband still makes me roll my eyes. I doubt my judgement. I am happy and grateful to be fine on my own. Open to meeting someone as well.