I'm bad with names, so I'll start off saying that. My heart goes out to each of you who doesn't know where your son or dtr is or if they're alive. I had 24 hours when my son went AMA from detox and I was nearly catatonic with fear. I am lucky that he turned up at home (he was cold) looking for a heavier coat, gloves, etc and once i invited him in for a hot shower and breakfast he broke down about his life "wasn't supposed to be like this" and he wanted to go back to rehab. Thank God!!! And thank God they said he could go back. God bless and I hope your kids will accept your offer of helpin them get to treatment.