Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
Sounds to me like you're working this through just fine. Sounds to me like you just got a bit blindsided by the apparent change in the relationship and then the second thoughts that seemed to follow. It could be he doesn't feel that the "more than friends" relationship would work out. And that's OK, too--he might not have realized it until it headed in that direction. It happens. One person re-thinks.
But either way, try not to let it throw you too much. Life will go on.
Hugs!
He actually has made it clear that what he would like is to play "let's date one another while I (he) decides whether he's following his adult son out west".
Needless to say, Im not a fan of that plan where my feelings or those my kids are involved...
So I am left trying to decide if I even want to bother remaining friends at this juncture bc I am just so annoyed...
I would think that at 50+, a man would know better than to suggest such an "arrangement" to someone he ought to know better than to suggest it to
