Welcome back Poppet!
I am glad you posted. I keep coming back - although I have been divorced seems like forever and XAH is somewhere in a rear view mirror...
With that said.....I hope you have strength to find yourself. There is a whole world out there, wonderful world without entitled whiny addict in it. World filled with healthy people that can and will give, not just take.
Keep posting - we are here to support you
