I love this forum in that anyone can say anything they want to us, and we can read it, and let some stay between our ears or let it fly out the other side. I know I like that anyone takes the time to comment on my posts. But like the OP, I don't like rules either, or people trying to interpret what I am trying to say. I gave up a long time ago trying to read into what other people say (my wife) and what they really mean (my wife) and finally realized that it does not matter what they said or what I think they said. What matters is what I hear, and they are probably not interested in hearing what I heard. (that confused me to write that). What I do know is that if I try to tell someone what I heard them saying (my wife) she is going to let me know that she did not pay me to analyze what she said. I will just leave it at that...