In my experience, the best way to find a sponsor is to go to a meeting. There is no waiting list for AA/NA; you can walk on in anytime you want. And they will welcome you with wide-open arms. If you have any questions, let us know. Many of us have found sobriety with the help of 12-step programs. And in my case, I have not only found sobriety, I have found blessed moments of peace, serenity, and contentment. PM me, if you'd like. I won't preach AA to you, but I will answer any questions or concerns you may have. I can't keep what I have got if I don't share it with others!
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