After getting sober one of the first things I noticed was how many people didn't drink like me. That most people could have a few drinks and enjoy themselves.
Went to a business function last month. Maybe 100 people there having a good time with the free drinks. Didn't see anyone out of control. I rarely see co-workers coming to work with a hangover. Family and relatives the same thing. They have a few drinks and that's it.
Nothing wrong with taking a six-pack to the beach or whatnot. The problem for me was a six-pack was just the beginning.