sedona74

In response. I don't have children,but I can relate. I was a FA functional closet alcoholic for 15years the last five of them hardcore I drank a GALLON of vodka a day yes a DAY. it dumbfounds me that IM alive to share this. More than likely he's underplaying how much he really admits to drinking. We all do. He more than likely is a closet drinker like is was. Which in a way is a good thing, it keeps u put of trouble with the law. I have no record or duis as well. However I was homeless for thankfully a brief time but picked myself up after a nervous breakdown even back with my husband. He like yourself didn't realise my drinking was THAT bad. We never did therapy any of that. I do force myself to go to behavioral health just FOR myself and it has helped emensly. If you can get him to at least try that its half the battle THEN maybe he'd be more willing to agree with the couples therapy. For the record I will be 4 years sober coming up on the 18th of this month!!!!!