The idea of limiting myself to two drinks (or two cigs or two tokes for that matter) just sounds like horrible torture. It reminds me of what I read in some Men's Health type magazine many years ago that said to try taking 90 days off. Well I did, and it was so awful that I decided to never drink again! I'm with ZJW on this one, just feeling the need to set up ground rules for drinking is a red flag.