Question regarding alanon meeting?
I pretty much know I was foolish to trust my husband.
I know I allowed and accepted his daily drinking
( mostly because he was the very opposite of my father ; who was the classic , belligerent , fighting drunk) - the picture of the drunk that was in my mind.
I knew my STBXAH drank ALOT(every single day) but if he was not the belligerent , fighting drunk - somehow I thought we could make the marriage work
( silly me)
I seen the signs of his recklessness with his finances ( my remedy was to remove all finances and financial decisions from him ) wrong because this enable him and released him from mature responsibilities adults in the real world encounter
So if I know all these things how will alanon help me .
I already feel bad and I am at my lowest point for not being able to avoid the failure of my marriage . I feel horrible that I could not help him beat the drinking problem he has. I just got so tired of his drinking and went into self preservation mode and that's when he said he knew I had changed( huh?)
Is there really help for me at a alanon meeting?