Originally Posted by
savingmein2017 
So it sounds like either way I'm going to lose.
If I take all the debt , I struggle to pay it. Sell what I can ( no equity in any of the assets at this point)
If I get equitable distribution of the credit cards - he may not pay them which means I pay the credit cards to or my credit gets ruined? What is the abusing spouse accountability?
Wow ...... where is the justice
Shout it from the rooftops SM, there is very little come-back from credit, gifts, whatever, between people in the same family. I know this sounds harsh, but you knew him and you entered into these arrangements of your free will.
No, its not morally fair, but we're all adults here and he did nothing that you didn't participate in. Now your job is to get the absolute best settlement without giving him a bean more than you have to.