Hi Thousandwords. Think about your needs not his. Think of how a protective order will benefit you? Do you think he will be any better just because you chose not to have a protective order. IMO, no.
He may be better to get what he wants. It would not be long term for what the relationship needs. It will be good for a year or two and you can decide after that time away from him.
You're doing so well. You make the path for us.