I must hasten to add, that I have not gotten a "thank you" in any way, shape or form from this girl. She is a senior in high school this year.
I do take the point, however, from some who posted that I should give a gift without any expectations.
I must also confess that this issue has opened up some apparent resentments I could still be fostering towards my FOO. If any of you have some practical advice you have learned from your program how to get rid of resentments, I would appreciate that as well.
Many thanks again!!!