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Old 01-30-2017, 11:55 AM
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JustAnotherDay
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Originally Posted by dandylion View Post
Justanotherday....I'm sorry---I didn't get the gesta
lt of the situation.....
So, I went back and reread a couple of times......

It looks like, maybe, HE doesn't respect your need to have a "regrouping" period. If he hovers that closely..when you have asked him to give you a little space....maybe,,,,just maybe, he has a touch of the co-dependency in him, also....
It isn't only just one person in a relationship that has some degree of co-dependency.....

If there is any chance that I might be right about this...maybe you need to enforce your boundary, on this, a bit more strenuously.....
I think you're right Dandy. It just seems weird to me that someone would still expect me to act as if nothing is wrong. I feel like he is pushing me to feel/do certain things, and I dont appreciate it so its left me feeling weird.
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