Congrats tnek!!!
So happy for your newfound assertiveness Steely!!
Plenny im so glad your feeling better as well.
Im still wallowing in emotions over here. I dont want to lose my job, i dont want to give up my apartment, i dont want to move closer to my ex, i dont want my kids in daycare any longer than they are now, i dont want to commute 2.5 hours a day, i dont want a random part time job, i dont want to stay up late thinking anymore. Thing is i cant have all of that at the same time. Some things gotta give. Aaaaaaarrrgggghhh. I know this too shall pass. But uncertainty is a mean mistress.