Jim, I always get a lot out of your shares and once again I am glad you brought this here.
My son stole from us many times (I should have charged him the first time...) and yet if anyone cheated him or stole from him, he was absolutely livid.
I'm not sure what makes your daughter or my son or other active addicts just not SEE how destructive their behaviour is, even when it happens to them. God bless them all.
Hugs