Prayers to you and her. Counselling is hard work and does not always come with a payoff. For me- I see people who do the lip service approach. Then those who are just cruising- just making sure they are okay. Then there is the me sort- who push hard to try and change- from grief, pain, abandonment, loss, NDE, depression and a wheel barrow of other stuff. Face to face is important to me- because without it- I do not see outside the box.