I identify more with those who said these types of things bothered them more when drinking than in sobriety. Maybe it was from taking a good look at my own character defects while doing the steps. Or maybe it was from listing my resentments and seeing how big of a part they played in fueling my alcoholism. Whatever it was I am now able to put minor annoyances in their proper context, where in the past I used to let a lot of people live rent free in my head for their "transgressions" against me.