Yeah, along the lines of what Lexie just said...one does have to be willing to throw some fish back.....
I am wondering if you are less of an initiator...more content to wait for someone else to make the first move? Perhaps, you are a bit more introverted than extroverted...?
Now, before you go all defensive, about this....I am only speculating to trigger your thoughts...not criticizing.....lol.....