Ditto. The first relationship you have is with yourself. If that ain't right, bringing in another person is not only going to be ineffective in terms of your own happiness, but it's very unfair to the other person.
I understand that you aren't necessarily putting up a dating profile tomorrow, or even next month. The point is to adjust to the idea of being happy, complete person in your own right. Do that, and you'll someday (and don't worry about the "when") be in a position to really have something substantial to share with someone else.