Old 08-30-2005, 07:33 PM
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pix
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To be honest (even after 10 years), I would not want him to feel like he was abandoned. I'm not quite sure if it's because we are still married, the kids, or just because he needs help. He has no family close by for support, and the children can only give so much support (many unresolved issues).

The counseling through rehab is fine, but since we have not heard from him since admission (and dropping off the things he needed), he may not want or welcome any support from us. I do know that I (and the kids) can't go through the turmoil of being shutout once again. I suppose all we can do is wait and see if he contacts us. It is already hard trying to explain to the kids why he hasn't called them.

I have looked into Al-Anon and Alateen for support and information. Whether or not he decides to go it alone or not, both of the groups will maybe help us deal with his recovery.

Thanks for the advice - I appreciate it!

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