I started therapy for co-dependancy yesterday. When I went in for the evaluation I really wanted them to admit me even if it were a few days. I almost messed uo my marriage and lost my family because of my co-dependancy on people who seem to only help me into the wroung direction, I'm really good at cutting off anyone that is good for me. My husband also only wants to help and went to some drastic measures like changing our phone number and stuff. But he lets me make my own decions on treatment. I would think about connecting with a mediator if you feel he won't listen and only blame.