I'm so sorry to hear of the trouble your son is facing, Thumpa. It must be very difficult parenting from a distance, but it sounds as though you have a good relationship with your son and that he is willing to get the help he needs to get through this. I didn't know that you could get a DUI for MJ, and with it being legalized in CA, maybe the courts will be somewhat lenient? Hopefully, with a good lawyer, he can get the help he needs without stiff penalties.