I understand, I had a hard time with that too at first. I now take it as an opportunity to order a yummy non-alcoholic drink. I like sweet and fruity...there's also pretty creative coffee drinks out there that you can find most any place as well as lots of different pop options. Sometimes I like to order a large Sprite. I know it's not all that healthy but it's yummy and refreshing. A lot of non- alcoholic drinks actually taste a lot better than alcoholic ones if you give them a chance.