Hey Michelle!
You know, the more posts I read, the more I'm impressed with your strength and willingness to fight this disease. On the subject of the BB, you can search it and read it on-line at
http://www.healingresource.org/book.cgi?Display_Welcome
Has your husband sought out any help for his recovery from the addiction? I know that I've found so much peace and love through Al-anon. Learning that I'm powerless over my husband's drinking has given me the ability to SUPPORT him and his battle, rather than try to CONTROL him. You certainly can't tell him what to do, but you can let him know that the support is there and then it's up to him to decide if he wants to use it.
Blessings to you,
Shannon