Originally Posted by Acheleus
I'm being my true self for the first time in my life and bars do not align with my interests. I can only be honest.
Then I would not plan on playing gigs in bars if I were you, and I would let your friend know that. I only said see how it goes because I understood you to say you were planning on playing bar gigs. There's no reason to do this then, right? You need to be true to yourself for sure.