Welcome back timeforchange. I'd agree that it's probably very unhealthy for you to continue the relationship with this person. Also call rhe sober living facility to see if you can reschedule the assessment. Rehab can be a great place to get started in sobriety, but it's only the very beginning of the processes. You've got to surround yourself with supportive people and avoid those that may not understand or appreciate your need to be sober. I would bet that there are aftercare or outpatient programs available from the rehab you were at, give them a call too. And don't ever forget the large community of support here on SR that is online 24/7 365 days a year.