I wonder if their intent is to be inspiring? Like the fitness gurus on January 2, or the slender folks at Weight Watchers, or the speakers at college orientation, or political candidates at rallys? If you can't change meetings, I think it would be OK if you voiced your concerns with a trusted AA member (do you have a sponsor?) who may be able to give you some more perspective about what's going on. Waiting sounds like a recipe for resentment, which can lead to negative feelings that could get in the way of your recovery. Sending good thoughts about solving this tricky issue!