Originally Posted by
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A cruel psycho who does not deserve them, that's who. Geez, stay away. I understand he has a good side but so far the bad far outweighs it. And this "all or nothing" crap with seeing your kids - well it's crap. A loving-but-divorced parent does anything to remain part of his/her kids' lives and cooperate with the other parent.
Unless he drastically changes his tune, stay far away.
God bless.
Thank you!! I included a no contact order in our divorce paperwork & if he wants any visitation he has to go through our lawyers & I will ensure he is drug tested & willing to be a stable fixture in their lives. More than likely I'm guessing that will be too much work for him and he will just go drink & smoke and throw a hue pity party for himself. Onward & upward in 2017!!