but technically he was sober throughout our relationship but there were two different occasions where he relapsed and then it took him back to rehab
you said the "relationship" lasted about 7 months. and in that time he had TWO trips to rehab.....the math alone says this is not a sustainable situation.
break ups hurt. but only for a while. actually learning to survive a break up without completely falling apart is a good skill to develop....life is going to throw a lot of things at us, and if we come undone each and every time, it's going to be a long dark road.