ok inhale... I have been there...
1. you both own the business... do you have a credit card for the business..
2. you have the right to money from the business to allow you to live
3. get a lawyer... time to set up a toe line and hold tight..
4. if you are married and own the business together. even the house is property of the union...
5. get lawyer and get your life... yep... take it from another that had to do this too..