I can always keep in touch with the kids, but it will have to be through her stbx, and that's ok right now.
I tried as hard as I could to talk reason to her, but I don't take those kind of attacks on me very well. (lol) She also attacked her sister while she was talking to me. I didn't deal well with that either.
The make believe wedding, I'm not attending that, but I'll give her a make believe gift.
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