but who kicks their pregnant wife a baby out of the house at midnight in the rain?
A cruel psycho who does not deserve them, that's who. Geez, stay away. I understand he has a good side but so far the bad far outweighs it. And this "all or nothing" crap with seeing your kids - well it's crap. A loving-but-divorced parent does anything to remain part of his/her kids' lives and cooperate with the other parent.
Unless he drastically changes his tune, stay far away.
God bless.