Hi, WD... I just wanted to let you know how horrific your story is to me and that I am so sorry it is like that for you. You deserve so much better, and his "all or NOTHING" stance with his own children is BULL****! He's a selfish addict right now. I hope he chooses recovery and FAMILY (for God's sake) in his future. But for now, protect your little ones. I will say a prayer for you.