Originally Posted by
Ariesagain 
Even if you let him back in your life, your kids still won't have a father. Or you a partner. He doesn't have that to give.
You've had a really rough time and I send you a hug and wishes for peace and clarity.
I love that statement, even if he was around he wouldn't be a dad or partner. So true and I should just consider myself fortunate he took ninety instead of pushing for overnight visits.
Thanks for those reassuring words.