Told my husband about the affair with the ex at the conference. He smiled and said he kinda knew it was going to happen, and also that I would come back to him and discuss.
So one of the lessons I am taking from this is that I am still vulnerable to relapse. Hooking up with the ex
was a relapse, even if not alcoholic. Just read this thread and see what stands out... I am a polyamorous peerson, have been since my childhood, and this is what I am most secure about and know how to manage. That thing with the ex was a one-of-a-kind experience, extreme and out of general character for me. It was an addiction, like alcohol.
Not who and what I am as a healthy person
