Originally Posted by
Frickaflip233 
No not stupid at all. Some of us are just wired that way. I know I am. Having a lot of anxiety it helps me to plan and stick to that plan. Folks that aren't this way see it as 'rigid' or whatever. For me its survival.
Yes I can adjust my sails and I can be spontaneous if I need to be. But I try to keep that at a minimum. Yeah, control. But it is my schedule so I suppose its ok to control it. I'm not trying to control anyone else
Isn't it interesting how the control and structure "relaxes" us to a certain degree? I feel much calmer when things are planned. Spontaneity is no my strong suit. haha.