Originally Posted by
PhoenixJ 
Do not think an over reaction. That is dangerous and illegal. What else does that bar tender do- perhaps something special in the ladies drink so he can have a happy time later? Very unsafe. Good for you.
Thanks all. It was actually a lady bartender!
I found out today they were serving moonshine too. Things are very different (this isn't in the US or territories).
I'd say if a resort is all inclusive, it's probably the same deal. Talking to some folks at the resort they seem to indicate it's the same deal everywhere.