Originally Posted by
tonesward 
She says they don't talk about me,don't miss me and that they've all got used to me not being around and that it's better that I stay away, just disappear and not mess them up by visiting
Understood.
Only reason I asked was that while BHL touched on a good point, I got this gut feeling that that was not the whole story. And that the situation had evolved over the time that had passed.