Too soon
Just looking for some thoughts on this....STBXAH and I have come to an agreement that it is time for us to both move on....separately.
He didn't think I was really serious about us getting divorced til a few weeks ago when I had a guy come over to hang out and watch a movie. He doesn't know this guy and says his sponsor and therapist think it is too soon for me and that maybe I need to go to alanon because this guy has had a TBI and PTSD from when he was in the service, which was many years ago. I have known this person for about a year...we both work at the same place/similar jobs. He has kids from previous relationships and has custody of the 2 oldest.
I like hanging out with this guy. We have some things in common and others things not so much. There is nothing serious between us....yet. I am cautious because of the kids and have not had him over when they are here.
So am I moving on too soon? I was thinking not until STBXAH brought it up tonight.