th ousandwords.....whenever we change our behaviors....those around us always notice. If our former behaviors were ones that served THEIR needs....you can be sure that they are going to react.....Often in critical or negative ways....
I think one has to be aware that this is going to happen...and, expect it.
I certainly have had to face this, myself. It bites....
I think it is one of the prices that we have to face, if we want to reclaim our place in this world.
One thing , for sure, is that we can't keep every person happy....and, especially, we can't keep anyone happy all the time without sacrificing some parts of ourselves.
Think about this....how many people have made it their job to keep YOU happy, all the time? How long is that list?
so, why do other people get better treatment than you....
Nobody else is a damn bit better than you.....