Originally Posted by
hearthealth 
This morning I was feeling good about our relationship like maybe he's changing, maybe there was a glimmer of hope. Then I go to bed thinking, this relationship isn't working for me.
Is he still drinking?? If so then he is not changing.
Don't fool yourself, because I did. My AH was fully functional for years and that was "good enough" for me. Took his recent relapse for my eyes to be open and realize that I don't need someone to be "there" I need someone to BE THERE. I don't need a roommate, I need a partner.
Be true to yourself. If you are seeking help then when the time is right you will know what to do.
((hugs))
KTT