jjnorris
I'm so sorry for the pain you are in right now. Sometimes when we give an ultimatum that seems reasonable to us, we feel certain that our loved ones will, of course, choose us. But many times, they don't, when it comes to addiction.
I am sorry that your husband chose the "or" option. I grieve for you and your child, and I am sad for him. The only thing I can offer are prayers, and hugs
Please try to take very good care of yourself!