Yes, write these down! They help us remember when we are feeling weak.
On the other side, it became clear that often, XABF was a hindrance to my life more than he helped it. OMG...all the home projects I had to go back and redo because he did a drunken messy job, all the extra cleaning....ugg...
Anywho - life just might be easier without him! Let alone more peaceful.