Big plan
Hello I am back after a long absence. 42 days ago I quit drinking alcohol and I feel good in that decision. I am only really just learning about avrt but have a question..
I notice in other sections of the site like newcomers a lot of people saying "never say never" with not drinking again but instead to take one day at a time. This seems at odds with big plan idea to me but perhaps I misunderstand?
I know there are other recovery methods put forth here and just trying to untangle what belongs to what...
To me never saying never because it might scare myself seems like then I am just tricking myself each day with the possibility dangling that yes, maybe tommorow I will drink. Is it not better to decide and be clear in that decision so you move on?
Just looking for others thoughts on this, thanks