Its just sad. After 10 years we have gone through some things that have definitely brought us closer... this one though... no. Its his kid, I guess, he feels the need to protect him, even from me. Its too bad, that he cant see that I am still trying to help.
I guess the counseling is going to be more for me, but he's welcome if he wants. I think he is just going so that he can say he did. He really was closed off there, but made comments before that I didn't seem to want to go. I just think its hard going in there and being that open and honest about raw emotions (but how would it work if your not willing to go elbows deep) So I go, and do the best I kind. Therapy is work. I'm not going skipping in there. But I am trying.
Is he trying by being there or just placating me. Were defenses up that will come down, or just wasting time. Who knows. The only thing I know, is I'll be at that appt. next week.