Originally Posted by
Maudcat 
Well, if my spouse said, "go find the house you want and let me know when I should pack my toothbrush" I would be over the moon.
But that's me. Would your wife be amenable to doing the lion's share?
Not saying she should, mind. But maybe she would welcome the challenge/chore.
well, that's the thing. she's leaving it to me because of how busy her schedule is going to be. even getting a sit down with her until the end of jan. is going to be difficult.